Robert Chesley
(1943-1990)“No matter where he began, in fairy tale or phone sex, Robert Chesley always took his audience someplace new. He could shift from the silly to the dangerous to the tender in the blink of an eye. His plays are not period pieces, but startling glimpses of a recent past that tell us things we badly need to know about our present and future.”
Christopher BramRobert Chesley was born on March 22nd 1943 in Jersey City to a divorced single mother who taught him to take to the streets for Vietnam, gay rights and socialism. After majoring in music at Reed College, he taught in several private schools in upstate New York and composed over five dozen choral works to texts by poets like Emily Dickinson, Willa Cather and Walt Whitman.
His life was transformed in 1976 when he first had sex with a man. “I was a very good boy,” he later reflected: “I had been doing what I was supposed to do. The trouble was that I was not really what I was supposed to be.”
After that, he swiftly came out, divorced his wife of twelve years, and resigned from his teaching role to move to New York City, where he began penning theatre reviews for local gay papers and immersed himself in the growing gay liberation movement.
Robert Chesley Comes Out
“As far as I could judge it, the student reaction was one of respect and interest. One student entertained himself and others by occasionally scrawling “Chesley is a Queen” about the school. When he was standing in line waiting for the commencement ceremonies to begin, I offered him my lavender flair pen and suggested he write a final note on the tables for the post-commencement luncheon.”
Read more about Chesley’s coming out as a gay school-teacher in 1976.
All his life Chesley took aim at those who sought to restrict or censor the joys of gay sexuality. “We have to declare war on prudes,” he once said; “we must stop being tasteful lest we offend.” During the first years of the AIDS crisis, he became embroiled in a war-of-words with Larry Kramer after the activist urged men to stop having sex.
Stray Dog Story (1982), a gay fairy tale, was his first full-length play. In its opening scene, a “lonely faggot” named Jon wishes that his dog Buddy was human and his lover. “If people were as good-hearted as dogs”, he sighs, “we wouldn’t be in the mess we’re in, that’s for sure.” No sooner has Jon left his room than Buddy’s Fairy Dog Mother suddenly appears and Jon’s wish is granted: Buddy is transformed into a ‘darling man’, naked except for his dog collar.
His 1984 play Night Sweat was the first full-length play about the AIDS crisis to be produced in New York. It follows Richard, a young man with HIV who pays $10,000 to join Coupe de Grace, an assisted suicide sex club where gay men arrange to die during their wildest fetish fantasies. Despite its grim subject matter, the play was billed as ‘a romantic comedy’. As San Francisco’s Bay Times reported, “the play is often very funny. Don’t ask me how Chesley does it, but he does. Despite the death surrounding them, the characters live and love.”
Phone sex, or ‘dial-a-porn’, rose in popularity during the 1980s as a way for men to practise ‘safe sex’ during the AIDS epidemic. Chesley wrote about his experience of dirty-calling in Jerker (or the Helping Hand), which premiered in Los Angeles in 1986. Set in San Francisco, it follows two so-called ‘San Francisco Faggots’, J.R. and Bert, as they engage in anonymous phone sex, bringing each other to orgasm every night through fantasies of bondage, water-sports and incest. In the process, however, they grow to care for each other. The play’s subtitle ‘the helping hand’ is ironic: the men cling to their anonymity to guard against the possibility of discrimination and rejection, even as they fantasise about touching every night.
The broadcast of the play on Hollywood radio generated controversy when a right-wing minister filed a complaint with the Federal Communications Commission. They eventually ruled that the broadcast was “patently offensive” and compelled the government to bring in restrictions on the distribution of queer material. Chesley’s impassioned response highlighted the dangerous consequences of this censorship.
A speech by Robert Chesley at ‘Epidemic: Centre Stage’, 1987.
On April 27th 1987, Chesley made a powerful appeal for sex positivity and acceptance at a fundraiser run by Gay Men’s Health Crisis.
Read Chesley’s full speech here.
After his HIV diagnosis in 1988, Chesley bore his status proudly, often wearing a pink triangle pinned to his jacket. His partner Mark I Chester photographed him naked, erect and in lycra. This confrontational photo series, titled “Robert Chesley-KS portraits with harddick & superman spandex”, was published in San Francisco’s Bay Times in 1989 in an effort to remove the stigma surrounding People with AIDS.
Chesley passed away on December 5th 1990, at the age of 47. His career was relatively short, spanning no more than a decade, but he created 10 full-length plays and 21 one-act plays, most of which were never produced in his lifetime. The plays Private Theatricals: Morning, Noon and Night and Dog Plays, both written during his final years, have been performed posthumously.
Victor Bumbalo on Chesley
Plays
Stray Dog Story, 1981
Night Sweat, 1983
Nocturnes, 1983
Beatitudes, 1984
Jerker (or the Helping Hand),1985
Madeleine de Lucien, 1985
Pigman, 1986
Come Again, 1987
Dog Plays, 1989
Private Theatricals: Morning, Noon and Night, 1990
Resources
A recording of our performance of ‘Jerker (or the Helping Hand)’ by Montez Press Radio, March 2024.
Alastair Curtis and Mark I Chester in Conversation, February 2024.
The Victor Bumbalo/Robert Chesley Foundation.
Robert Chesley: In Memoriam, Reed College, December 2020.
Robert Chesley, ‘Autumn’, Sudden Sunsets: Highlights Of The Benson Aids Series. 2015.
Publications
Plays by Robert Chesley
Including: Stray Dog Story, Jerker, Dog Plays
Broadway Play Publishing, 2005